At the age of 5 or 6 I had the swimming lessons you’d expect any kid to receive when they live within 10 minutes of the beach. Soon enough I received a certificate as proof that I could swim 30 meters, but even so I never felt comfortable swimming. My memory is foggy of these lessons specifically, but I remember thrashing around, gasping for air and my parents affectionately referring to me as a tadpole while my sister, who was considerably more capable at swimming (but also four years older) was referred to as a dolphin; able to effortlessly glide through the pool.
Swimming wasn’t exactly for me. But I still loved the water. I was hopeless at getting from A to B, but the second I got in the pool I’d swim straight to the bottom and just sit there for a good 20-30 seconds, completely free from anxiety, observing everyone else floating around. Perhaps I’d struggle to save myself from drowning but I wasn’t scared of the water (at least not at pools – the ocean induced a bit of fear).
In my early teens it was decided that I should have further swimming lessons to rid myself of tadpole-status. I was against the idea, but there was still that hope that perhaps I wouldn’t need to feel ashamed of not being able to properly swim – a feeling amplified by the fact that pretty much all of my friends were quite accomplished swimmers and surfers.
It didn’t go according to plan.
The pool where I received lessons was both heated and heavily over-chlorinated – a combination that can be dangerous to the breathing of some people (like this guy), including myself. Asthma has been in the family, but I’d personally never had any problems, and while I didn’t have full-blown attacks, I did begin to have troubles with wheezing plus breathing in colder climates (like school camps, where temperatures would drop down to 0 degrees celsius), forcing me to use an inhaler at times.

And it wasn’t just the breathing either. These lessons did nothing to improve my technique. I went away at the end of each class assured that I had to kick harder, stroke faster, and that it was my fitness at fault. All I was being told to do was endless amounts of pointless drills, never being corrected for mistakes that were so blatantly obvious with my style.
Throughout each lesson I would constantly look at the clock and do as much as possible to extend my time out of the water (like going to the backs of lines when practicing diving), and then as soon the clock hit 11am I’d jump out of the pool, grab a towel, and get out of there as fast as possible, just in case I broke into tears. “What is wrong with me?” I’d think – everyone else seemed so capable in the water; I felt I was the only one who didn’t “get it.”
Needless to say, the day I finished these lessons (when it became obvious how they were affecting my breathing) was a great day, but all the same, between then and about 7-10 days ago, swimming had continued as a phobia of mine. I avoided all surf and swimming carnivals at school and the only time I had to go in the pool was when I was caught avoiding races, so they put me in a race with all the other students who hadn’t swam either for various reasons. That was quite humiliating, but it was over fairly quickly at least.
Last year Tim Ferriss wrote about his troubles with swimming and how his experiences completely changed with the discovery of Total Immersion (TI), a technique focused on biomechanics rather than using brute force to make your way through the water. The dream to learn how to truly swim was implanted in my mind, but it was only last week, when my neighbours went away on vacation (leaving their pool wide open for my use – with permission of course) that I was able to put the information into practice.
For the past week or so I’ve swum 2 times per day (with a couple of days off due to the weather and to forget bad habits I was developing) and I’m certainly no Phelps. Everyone I know could surely out swim me, and would find it considerably more effortless but…
- I mostly overcame the anxiety towards swimming that had built up over the years.
- Never before have I been able to do 4 consecutive laps without gasping hopelessly for air. There are still many inefficiencies in my technique, which I’ll talk about, but I’ve made much progress in this area.
- There is an effortlessly feeling when I don’t over think what I’m doing. When you try to grasp to that feeling it’s lost, and you sink, but I’ve felt that effortlessness, and that’s what really matters. It exists.
Swimming involves a number of components that need to work together to produce sustainable, momentum in the water. I’ve broken these components down into three categories that I felt were the big three elements of my progress. The categories are technique, anxiety, and breathing.
Technique
How you move affects your swimming 100x more than fitness, strength, or how badly you want to reach the other end of the pool.
This is the section where I don’t feel I have much value to add because Tim documented and explained the key TI principles quite brilliantly. The few points that had the most noticeable effect on my swimming though were:

- Roll from shoulder to shoulder instead of lying flat on top of the water.
- Angle your arms in a way that it feels like you’re swimming down. Watch the start of this video from Tim for extra info about the position and angle of your arms.
- Practice the movements rather than training for fitness.
Having only learnt about Total Immersion technique through the internet there are likely manly subtleties I’m missing in my stroke so, like I will do soon, it’s probably a good idea to watch the official Easy Freestyle DVD.
Anxiety
The moment I’d hit the water over the past few years I’d start feeling anxious. Floating around wasn’t too bad, but keeping my head under the water for an extended period was out of the question. My heart rate would jump, I’d feel like I was drowning, and then I’d wretch my head back up and gasp for air. (If you don’t feel anxious when you’re in the water, still read this section; there are some valuable tips.)
Slow down. You don’t need to move fast to swim. Whenever you find yourself gasping for air or feeling stressed, calm yourself down by standing still and breathing, and then slow down the next time you begin your stroke.
Stick with short and shallow. Anxiety is nature’s way of protecting you. If you didn’t feel stressed in certain situations then you would never be aware of threats, or at least perceived threats. Water is a threat. Deep water is a bigger threat. Swim in a pool that is either shallow all the way (so you can easily stand at any point) or allows you to swim horizontally across the shallow end. Psychologically this will reduce the overwhelming feelings that an unfamiliar environment can bring on.
Practice mindfully. When practicing an aspect of the TI technique or your breathing determine a set distance (< 15 meters worked well for me) and repeatedly try to swim that distance. At the end of each drill think carefully about everything you did – were your arms in the correct positions? Did you exhale enough? Do not just start swimming again. Be mindful of your actions and constantly re-evaluate your approach.
Do one thing at a time. Because of the underestimated complexity of swimming it’s easy for your movements to become a messy flail of kicking and arm waving. Try practicing just one part of the technique, or one aspect of breathing at a time. For example, get in the water, push-off from the wall, and focus only on rolling your shoulders with each stroke. Through this you’ll be able to see the effect each part has on your movement, and soon those movements will feel natural, allowing you to blend them with the other techniques.
Float. Spread out your arms and legs, place your face in the water, and lie there, floating on the surface. Don’t purposefully cut of your oxygen supply, but stay in that position for as long as possible. The purpose of this is to become accustomed to the feel of the water and realize that, if need be, you can maintain buoyancy.
Breathing
Exhale. Perhaps the most embarrassing mistake I made during this process was that I wasn’t exhaling. Every time I’d try to breathe in I’d gasp, a small bit of air would escape (with just as much air coming right back in), and then I’d sink, incapable of going any further. I was like a balloon, inflating until I burst.

And that’s when my sister reminded me of a technique we’d been taught in the first swimming lessons we ever had: exhale through your nose when your head is below water, and inhale through your mouth when your head is above water.
It’s easy to think that your lungs are weak and you’re not bringing in enough air, but if you’re endlessly gasping for oxygen it’s more likely that you’re not letting enough air out of your body. As soon as my face is beneath the surface of the water I start to exhale and make sure I have a constant, and even sometimes forceful stream of air coming out of my nose.
Find your rhythm. Breathing is a rhythm, and I imagine everyone has their own timing. It’s tricky to help someone find their rhythm, so with that in mind it’s important to be aware that you need to discover what timing works for you, and that both the seconds between each breath and the length of the breaths themselves should become constant.
Breathe to one side. Most swimmers have a dominant side, a side that they find easier to breathe to; for me, this is my right side. As you’re swimming breathe to both sides and find out which is your dominant one (it should be fairly obvious). For now, stick with breathing to that one side.
In the first few days of practice I’d try to breathe to my left side and I noticed a few things:
- I couldn’t keep my body parallel to the ground.
- My leading arm would sink.
- Large quantities of water would find its way into my ear.
And thus I started only breathing to my right, every other stroke (first stroke, third stroke, fifth stroke etc). This is a temporary, but effective solution. What you’ll find is you’ll be able to maintain balance as you swim and have less trouble inhaling. But, it’s definitely a less natural-feeling way of breathing, so every now and then give bilateral breathing (breathing to both sides) a go. After breathing to one side for a while I found it easier to handle the bilateral approach, although it’s still one of my noticeable weaknesses.
Point your chin towards your shoulder. This is a subtle aspect of breathing, but is helpful in avoiding a mouthful of water and loss of balance. As you roll to breath, look up, but also move your chin slightly towards your shoulder so you’re almost looking behind you, but not quite. Or, perhaps the easier way to visualize this is to focus on not looking forward or directly to your side.
Slow, controlled breaths. Gasping desperately doesn’t bring in more oxygen than a regular breathe but eradicates any balance you have and increases the anxiety you’ll feel. Breathe on the first stroke you make and be careful to breathe in a controlled manner.
Don’t let the air force its way into your mouth; inhale with a purpose and stretch as far as you can with your leading arm to extend the time you have to breathe. At first this may feel like you’re not getting enough air, but that’s just “last breath syndrome” kicking in – the feeling that you won’t ever have access to oxygen again. Remain calm, and strive for at least two more controlled breaths.
Putting it all together
Regularly re-evaluate. Most problems I faced in the last few days were re-emerging problems. Either I’d forget to exhale at times, focus on the power of my movements rather than the accuracy, or anxiety would creep back in as I approached the deep end of the pool. Carefully inspect mistakes you make and be mindful of what needs to be done to correct it. Endlessly evaluate your swimming.

Stop on a good note. Once again the Hemmingway Hack comes into play. Don’t swim until you’re exhausted. Stop once you’ve made satisfactory progress (like mastering an aspect of the technique). Progress isn’t always possible (even over 7 days I had a couple of “off” days), but on those days where you do get a bit ahead, being able to stop at the right time and come back, roaring with excitement will allow you to persist past the inevitable struggles you’ll face.
Take breaks to end bad habits. About half way through this process I developed a bad habit when I’d try to breath to my left side, in that I’d lose balance (more so that I had previously) and take in water as I tried to breath. I couldn’t seem to shake this habit, so I stopped swimming and took a break for a day. Then, when I got in the pool after that day off, while I hadn’t mastered bilateral breathing or anything to that level, the habit was broken and I made exponential progress.
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Being able to sustain motion in the water instead of prolonging drowning as I used to do is a magical feeling and and it’s horrifying that more swim coaches don’t teach the Total Immersion method. Months and months of lessons got me nowhere while a week of self-teaching myself resulted in huge improvements. To some swimming is a skill they always just seemed to possess, but this is definitely one of the most fulfilling accomplishments and if you don’t enjoy swimming, I’d recommend trying this approach to it. You’ll fall in love with it.
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Hey, don’t stress about bilateral breathing. All the average type swimmers over forty or so only breathe to one side because that is how we were taught. I never heard of the bilateral thing till my kids started taking lessons.
Thanks for that note Karen. One reason I want to work on bilateral breathing though is because I’d love to start swimming down at the beach in open water, and the problem with relying on one side to breathe is that depending on how rough the water is you sometimes need to breathe to both sides to avoid getting a mouthful of water. :-)
Hey David,
One of the reasons so many swim instructors cannot teach these skills is that the mechanism of propulsion in the water was so poorly understood when they were taught.
Previously, experts observed sea turtles (naturally good swimmers) and tried to emulate their swimming style. Needless to say, humans differ greatly from sea turtles. Several techniques like pulling the arm in an “S” curve were based on those observations. Only fairly recently have swim coaches started to understand how to move efficiently through water. While the coaching population is still full of those who don’t understand these concepts, there is a growing number of coaches who can teach swimming effectively.
One of the most difficult things that coaches encounter is that for a “natural” swimmer, there is a disconnect between what is being done and what it feels like. As a swimmer myself, I honestly can say that the Total Immersion and similar programs make no sense to me because it feels wrong. But I have a swimming background and a good feel for the water.
Anyway, it’s good to see programs that are helping people gain the ability to swim. As a potentially life-saving skill, swimming is something that everyone should know how to do.
Thanks for sharing your expertise Dave. I’ll stop being so hard on swim coaches because I know it’s certainly a difficult skill to teach, and I think because I do live so close to the beach the majority of people around here are fairly natural swimmers.
Funny you mention this, because I read the same post and that’s what kick-started my triathlon career. I’m not super fast, but TI worked amazingly well to get me started.
Sweet Dolphin pic btw.
Ah, that’s sweet. I think I’m fairly far off entering a triathlon, but perhaps once I start swimming more regularly (I’m going to the beach on Thursday, but I still feel uncomfortable with going to the local pool – getting there though), I’ll become motivated to up my ambitions over the next couple of years.
For some people, this stuff just comes naturally.
At my school I was easily the fastest swimmer and I didn’t have any real coaching to speak of. I didn’t – and still don’t – know what bilateral breathing is, I never had to think about technique or positioning and the mechanics of underwater propulsion goes right over my head.
Add to that the fact that I still giggle like a schoolgirl when someone mentions breast stroke.
I wonder how good I could have been if I’d thought more about this before and got some coaching?
“Add to that the fact that I still giggle like a schoolgirl when someone mentions breast stroke.”
Heh, our swimming ability may be miles apart (me being incredibly behind of course) but our minds are certainly aligned with immaturity. And I think training with a coach will always provide you with the most specific improvements to your style, but there’s a nice freedom in just working on your swimming alone.
Swimming really is one of those things so many of us take for granted. I don’t remember learning to swim so it just feels like I always could… so the anxiety doesn’t exist. I can’t imagine being anxious and I guess the closest I can think of is the anxiety I get when jumping off the high board…. I can do it but it takes a lot of mental power and preparation.
You should be proud of yourself for tackling the problem so head on.
Thanks Forest. It definitely feels wonderful to overcome this chink in my armour.
Wow, I never realized there was so much to know about swimming. I learned to doggy paddle when I was about 4 or 5, and I have always had a pool in my backyard, so swimming has come pretty natural to me over the years. Certainly, I am not that fast or agile but I can navigate through the water pretty well, whether it is in the pool or at the beach.
Really, really good post David – I learned A LOT.
Thanks for the comment Steven. Glad I managed to help someone with more swimming experience than myself.
Nice extension on the ‘cold water’ theme David, you’ll be dancing in the rain next!
If I learn how to dance that may just become a reality. At the moment it’d more likely be “bobbing from side to side, looking awkward” in the rain. ;-)
Hi David – This is the first time I have visited your site but I have to say you level of detail, analysis and recommendations are tremendously well thought out and insightful. I’ve always been a good swimmer and I have never internalized the anxiety one must feel in not being able to.
It is interesting how breathing, and focusing on the practice of it, neutralizes a lot of problems in life. I think if you explore this more for yourself (meditation, full body breathing, etc…) you’ll find payoffs in other areas where you seek to improve your confidence in just about anything. Great post!//Marc
Thanks for the comment and compliments Marc. And as I was writing this I definitely noticed the correlation to how swimming is so connect to life and personal development in general; especially after reading the blog by the guy who created the TI system, swimwellblog.com which covers similar topics.
I am lucky. My first experience with swimming is when the neighbor lady took me to lessons. I still don’t know why she did this but she took me for two years to the local pool. I think the hardest thing for some people is to really relax. I have noticed that people who have a hard time always tense up in the water. When we do this, we sink like a rock. I still am trying to teach my wife this.. Thanks for another great post.
Tensing up was definitely a big factor for me. At first swimming felt very unnatural so I’d freak out and start drowning. Once I took my time though and released my anxiety things started looking up. Thanks for the comment Randall.
I taught myself to swim a few summers ago as well. Well done with it!
The thing I learnt most from Tim Ferriss’ videos on swimming:
Don’t swim on top of the water, you don’t float that much – go for shape in the water.
Tips on each of the strokes:
http://quact.wordpress.com/tag/from-a-beginners-perspective/
e.g. Breast Stroke is easier with small circles in front of you, like dinner plate sized!
Thanks for the comment James. And that “not floating on top of the water” point is definitely important. One problem that popped up a few times is that I’d try to look forward (instead of directly at the bottom of the pool) as a way to remain as close to the surface as possible. That caused a bunch of problems until I overcame that anxiety and allowed myself to remain submerged.
nice post :) i am not a big fan of the sea but i think if i developed my swimming skills more i will love it
Thanks for the comment Farouk. The sea can be a bit overwhelming at first, but in the past I’ve always come out of the water feeling absolutely fantastic.
I had a near drowning experience as a kid and was terrified of water for years. I decided as a new years resolution in my early 20’s to overcome this fear. One pool in town offered a water-phobics class. It was individual instruction for six weeks.
I may never be a dolphin, but am so grateful to the young US Army GI who had to exercise extreme patience and taught me to swim.
That experience often reminds me, sometimes the little things we do, can be a huge blessing in someones life.
Hi Erin. I appreciate you sharing your experiences with everyone, and it was a very nice way to wrap up your comment with a moral. :-)
Hey David, I ran across this on another blog and thought about your swimming post. How’d you like to swim HERE? :) http://www.forevergeek.com/2010/01/geek_pool_belgiums_nemo_33/
I think I’ll need a few more years before I could tackle something that deep, lol. Looks amazing though.
Hey David!
Great post! Personally, I hate pools and love the sea. There’s nothing more exhilarating than swimming in huge waves in a natural environment. Only wish I got to do it more. I live in Ireland so the sea is FREEZING!!!
Anyway, are you still doing podcasts? I seen some of your earlier podcasts/screencasts and they were great!
Cheers,
Dean.
Hey Dean, thanks for the comment. I ended up selling my microphone I used for the screencasts because it was a tad cumbersome (although still awesome); but I’ll pick up a new one soon enough and try to make a few more podcast episodes.
Hi David,
Finally got time to read this post and now I’m having an itch to go swimming again. Thanks! There is no more excuse now, I’m going to do it.
I mean, I’m sitting here at my pc and reading about swimming, there is an indoor swimmingpool literally 800 meters from my house. I have a proper pair of swimming shorts (suitable for TI, so no parachute.) and at least a few hours a week I’m aimlessly spending behind a pc. Reading this blogpost now in stead of 2 weeks ago is proof of that.
Let’s do this!
Ha, get to it! Admittedly I’ve been lazy with furthering my swimming; not because I don’t want to, but it seems like such a trek to a pool even though they’re within walking distance (although, these are open water pools, not your fancy schmancy indoor variety). :)
Thanks for this awesome post, David. First, I want to acknowledge your nice writing. Great work.
Swimming has always been a bag of hurt for me. Just like you I didn’t do very well at the swimming pool when I was 6 or so and I haven’t improved very much since then – until now. I tackled the topic of swimming just a few weeks ago after reading Tim Ferriss’ post that you mentioned. I have made some progress yet, but the very practical tips that you give in this post are uber-motivating and helpful. Again, thanks and good luck at improving your swimming skills.
Best
-David
Good stuff mate. Glad I could help you a bit.